Below you'll find some of the most common questions women have asked us. Read through the questions, and simply click the plus (+) icon to the right to reveal the answer.
Love Over Addiction helps you discover your strengths and plan your future. You’ll learn how to regain your joy and confidence and take back control of your future, whether your loved one gets sober or not. It lays the groundwork for you to begin your healing.
Love Over Addiction: Stay or Go is for women who go back and forth about leaving or staying with their loved one who drinks too much or suffers from addiction. You’ll learn specific signs to look for that they will get better (for good), why we stay in unhealthy relationships, if separation is right for you, when you should stay, and all the steps to prepare you for leaving.
We recommend reading about each program in depth before making your official selection, but as a general answer:
Love Over Addiction is best suited for wives and girlfriends. You’ll learn how to handle the disease, have peace of mind about your future, rediscover your courage and confidence, and experience a major breakthrough in your relationship.
Love Over Addiction: Stay Or Go is for women who go back and forth about leaving or staying with their loved one who drinks too much or suffers from addiction. You’ll learn specific signs to look for that they will get better (for good), why we stay in unhealthy relationships, if separation is right for you, when you should stay, and all the steps to prepare you for leaving.
Love Over Mistakes is for wives, girlfriends, and mothers who wish to learn the seven most common mistakes you might be making that could be preventing their loved one from getting sober for good.
Love Over Boundaries is best suited for wives, girlfriends, and mothers who want to learn what healthy boundaries are in their relationship with someone who suffers from addiction and how to enforce them.
When you join the course, you will get immediate access to Module One. Then, every 7 days, a new Module will be released for the next 4 weeks.
You have lifetime access so you can stop and start the program anytime you like.
We want you to feel happy with your purchase. It’s our goal to exceed your expectations. You have seven days to dive into the course. If you think it’s not for you, email us and we will refund 100% of your money back.
Love Over Addiction is the only program in the world for women only who love someone suffering from addiction. We don’t offer meetings of just 12 people - your new sisterhood is thousands.
You’re not just getting a new community of women like you, you’re getting an entire program with practical and simple steps. We know you’re busy, so there’s not a lot of ﬂuff or pie-in-the-sky slogans. Expect simple and practical tools.
Love Over Addiction means instead of spending money on drugs, alcohol or other addictions, you’re making recovery a priority, and giving your family the best chance.
By the end of the program, you’ll know exactly what to do with your partner, and more importantly, what not to do.
We have a team member, Laurie, who is completely dedicated to serving you and all your questions.
Michelle is inside the Secret Facebook Group answering questions and making personal videos.
In other words, we’re here if you need us, anytime. This is not a course you join and then never hear from us again (unless that’s your thing. Say the word and we will let you be).
There are 5 Modules plus a bonus section. We suggest doing one module per week. Each module includes audio recordings, videos, and downloadable guidesheets. Transcripts of each module are available for the hearing impaired, and you have lifetime access to the program.
Our program has been recommended by doctors, rehabs, and therapists. In fact, we even have some experts who are members of our community.
Our community is women only. However, we do have several men who purchase our programs since our content is gender-neutral.
Men are not invited inside our Secret Facebook Community.
Yes! We love our LGBT community and welcome women who love someone suffering from addiction. If that applies to you, you’ve found your sisterhood.
Michelle loves stories and we found that women actually learn better through stories and examples. Stories also help us feel like we are understood and not alone.
So yes, there are lots of personal and vulnerable stories that will move you.
We promise you will learn many, many new tools that have never been discussed through small meetings or therapy.
Yes, it’s yours to keep forever. In fact, we highly recommend completing it several times. The more, the merrier!
We understand addiction comes in cycles and we’ve got your back - always.
We understand you want conﬁdentiality and privacy. That’s why all our programs are just a click away day or night and during a crisis for your entire lifetime.
No face-to-face meetings to attend, and no childcare is needed.
If you are a celebrity or high proﬁle person - discretion is our biggest priority. Rest-assured your conﬁdentiality is protected.
Not at all! You will just need a device, such as a computer, smartphone, or tablet, with an internet connection to access our member site where the program is located. You can play audio, watch videos, and download worksheets from inside the program.
If technology is not your thing you can always email us at Info@LoveOverAddiction.com for support and we will walk you through it. We are here to support you. Always.
If any program or product promises to get them sober, we would be skeptical. We all know that you can’t control other people’s choices.
BUT we can take back our control over this disease. We don’t need to wait for them to get sober to start feeling happy, confident, and courageous.
And our programs will show you how with practical tools you can start using today. They’re perfect whether your loved one gets sober or not. They are recovery programs for YOU, not your loved one.
Because the truth is – this disease has hurt us, and we need recovery too. If they get sober, we still need these tools so we don’t make the common mistakes that may cause our loved ones to relapse.
We believe you are NOT powerless over this disease.
Our programs benefit anyone who loves someone with an addiction (whether that's alcohol, sex, substance abuse, or gambling).
While the wording in our programs refers to alcohol or substance abuse, the principles are the same, regardless of the addiction.
We teach healthy boundaries around pornography in the Love Over Boundaries program.
Every 7 days, a new module opens up. We do this because you need to take your time with each module and master it before moving on to the next. So many times we think we've heard something before, but we haven't taken action. We encourage you to give yourself time to put the lessons into action and to read and listen to each module a couple of times before moving on.
Some of the women like to keep up with the rate that our modules open up, but some like to take it a bit slower. We encourage you to do whatever works for you, but not to rush it!
Yes, absolutely! Our programs are formatted to view on iPhone, Android, tablets, computers, and laptops.
We're so sorry that you don’t currently have the funds to purchase our program. It can be so frustrating to want to get help, but not be able to afford it. We're here for you. Two things you can do are:
1) Make sure you subscribe to our blog – we send out free helpful tips every week – and
2) Subscribe to our free podcast on iTunes, Stitcher, or Spotify and our YouTube channel.
We offer a limited number of scholarships each quarter to those who could benefit from our Love Over Addiction program. If you are interested in applying, please send an email to Info@LoveOverAddiction.com.
We know you’re on the go - download each module to your phone, tablet or computer and take it with you.
You can listen in the privacy of your car, on a walk, or late at night. Our community is always here for you.
There are two rules in this loving and safe community.
The first is that we don’t judge. Ever. We have women in our community from many faiths or no faith at all. Every woman is included and welcomed.
Second, your confidentiality is our biggest priority. Period. We take that VERY seriously.
We understand about wanting to purchase only the modules that are related to what you're currently going through. However, we're unable to offer individual modules for purchase.
The program is designed to help you with your own healing, as well as giving you the tools to plan for your future. The content in each module really builds on itself.
You'll learn many new things that have never been discussed through small meetings or therapy.
Our support team would love to help you out with any questions you have. You can email us at Info@LoveOverAddiction.com.
To get access to the secret Facebook group, you must be a member of one of our programs.
After signing up for the program(s) of your choice, you’ll receive an email within several hours with instructions on how to join our secret Facebook group.
We take the privacy of this group very seriously. We’ll first verify that you’re a member of this program. After that, we’ll add you to the group.
Thank you for asking! Inside the Secret Facebook Group, you’ll see a post from Michelle pinned to the top featuring some important guidelines. Please read that post before starting to interact in the group.
We do NOT vent in this group – there are many other online groups that will allow this. This is a place to be inspired and encourage others and ask questions. We can do that without venting or over-sharing private information. We also request that you do not promote or pitch products or services inside our group. The purpose of the group is to encourage and uplift women who love someone that suffers from addiction, and we work very hard to ensure that those women feel safe with healthy boundaries.
No. Our group is top-secret. None of your Facebook friends will be able to see you’re a member or see any of your posts within the group. Your safety and confidentiality is our priority.
Yes, any member of our Facebook group can click on your name or photo to be taken to your Facebook profile. What they will see there depends on your personal privacy settings. You may want to set your profile’s privacy settings to “friends only” if you don’t want others to see your personal posts and profile.
You have access to the Secret Facebook Group and the program as long as you are still in the program or have graduated (completed the entire program) and your payments are maintained. You will remain in the group after your balance is paid in full. If you cancel your membership at any time, you will be removed from the Facebook group.
The group is optional. If you don’t want to join, you certainly don’t have to. (But we’d love to see you in the group).
We're so sorry you're having issues receiving our emails. Sometimes our emails end up in the spam/junk folder.
Please be sure that you've added our email address Info@LoveOverAddiction.com to your safe sender list so you'll be able to receive future emails from us. If you are still not receiving emails, reach out to us at Info@LoveOverAddiction.com and we can help you.