Love Over Addiction: Stay or Go is for women who go back and forth about leaving or staying with their loved one who drinks too much or suffers from addiction.

You’ll learn why we really stay in unhealthy relationships, if separation is right for you, specific signs they will get better (for good), when you should choose to stay, and all the steps to prepare you for leaving.

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Are You Scared They Will Never Get Sober?
Do you...

Feel rejected because they keep choosing drugs or alcohol over you?

Worry you’re giving up on your relationship if you leave?

Plan to stay, but still feel lonely?

Feel guilty for thinking about “deserting them” or breaking apart a family?

Love them, but know that things need to change so you can feel at peace?

Are You Scared They Will Never Get Sober?
Do you...

Feel rejected because they keep choosing drugs or alcohol over you?

Worry you’re giving up on your relationship if you leave?

Plan on staying but still feel lonely?

Feel guilty for thinking about “deserting them” or breaking apart a family?

Love them but know that things need to change so you can feel at peace?

Do The Work - You’re Stronger Than You Think

If you don’t learn a different approach - addiction can leave you broke, feeling helpless, and always anxious about what could happen.

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Do The Work - You’re Stronger Than You Think

If you don’t learn a different approach - addiction can leave you broke, feeling helpless, and always anxious about what could happen.

Here's a loving truth: You'll keep feeling stuck if you don't get help soon.

Have validation that leaving or staying is the right decision

Stay and still be happy (if you follow specific rules)

Leave and create a safe place of love and happiness for you (and your children)

Get better and feel stronger every day

Have validation that leaving or staying is the right decision

Stay and still be happy (if you follow specific rules)

Leave and create a safe place of love and happiness for you (and your children)

Get better and feel stronger every day

Next time you question yourself and doubt everything because they lied about their drinking or drug use, broke a promise, or abandoned your family, you’ll know what to do to experience healing.

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"You don’t have to decide today whether you’re leaving. I got a lot of flack from people who love me & want better for me but I believed in him/us and I wasn’t ready. It was extremely important to me to know without a shadow of a doubt that I gave it my all before ending it. I’m grateful that Michelle gave me “permission” to do that."

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What Makes Love Over Addiction: Stay or Go Special?

Rather than just sharing our experiences, we actually teach you what to say, how to help, and what not to do in your relationship.

  • No meetings to attend (introverts welcome).
  • No childcare to arrange or pay for.
  • Complete Privacy. Confidentiality is our biggest priority.
  • Available day or night (during a crisis) on your phone, tablet, or computer.

We never, ever do judgment. Come exactly as you are.

We are your safe and loving sisterhood.

How Does The Program Work?

After registration, you’ll have access to the program on your smartphone, computer, or tablet. There are 12 modules total, 1 released each week. Do you need the modules earlier?

Not “technically savvy?” We are always here to help you
(and it’s easier than you may think).

Work at your own pace. No need to rush, you have lifetime access.

What's Inside The Program

 VIDEOS

Welcome
Michelle welcomes you in a personal welcome video, Jo helps you organize your Stay or Go binder, and learn how to manage your finances with Brittany.

 AUDIOS

Over 7 Hours of Audio
Scored and produced in Los Angeles by an agency who composes Hollywood movies

*Scored audio will be released in late 2018. 

COMMUNITY


Our Secret Facebook Group
Your Sisterhood. None of your friends or family can view your posts or see you’re a member. Introvert? Not a group joiner? Celebrity or high profile? This community is optional, not mandatory.

 GUIDESHEETS

Over 50 Guidesheets
Designed to take your module studies to the next level and implement real changes.

 VIDEOS

Welcome
Michelle welcomes you in a personal welcome video, Jo helps you organize your Stay or Go binder, and learn how to manage your finances with Brittany.

 

 AUDIOS

Over 7 Hours of Audio
Scored and produced in Los Angeles by an agency who composes Hollywood movies

*Scored audio will be released in late 2018. 

COMMUNITY


Our Secret Facebook Group
Your Sisterhood. None of your friends or family can view your posts or see you’re a member. Introvert? Not a group joiner? Celebrity or high profile? This community is optional, not mandatory.

 GUIDESHEETS

Over 50 Guidesheets
Designed to take your module studies to the next level and implement real changes.

 

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"Your program has done wonders to bring peace into my soul and our home. I know better how to deal with my partner and myself and I have found so much joy that I didn't know was still there by going through this program."

PROGRAM DETAILS

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STEP ONE

  • 4 ways addiction could be harming you
  • The real cost of addiction
  • Is your fantasy inline with your reality
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STEP TWO

  • Why women stay in unhealthy relationships
  • 3 simple steps to gain self-confidence
  • 6 important questions to help you know yourself
  • Discover what you really want
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STEP THREE

  • How to tell if separation is right for you
  • Addicted to their addiction? Begin your perfect detox
  • Will they ever get sober? Take the test and find out
  • The gifts of separation
  • Staying: learn if it’s the right answer for you
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STEP FOUR

  • Should you be intimate with them? How to set a boundary to protect your body & heart
  • How to protect your children from this disease
  • Rules for visitation during or after a separation or divorce
  • How to avoid the biggest parenting mistake
  • The secret to training your partner to be respectful and kind
  • The simple boundary you need with your finances
  • How to stop playing the role of therapist, mother, fixer, mender, enabler, judge or jury
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STEP FIVE

  • How to select the best lawyer
  • Your personal checklist before meeting with a lawyer (that will save you $)
  • What no lawyer will ever tell you (but you must know before considering divorce)
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STEP SIX

  • How to create - and stick - to a budget that works for you (whether you stay or go)
  • The #1 practice for strong money foundations - that ALL women need to know
  • How to figure out exactly how much addiction is costing your family each month
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STEP SEVEN

  • How to find the right therapist
  • The best thing I learned after $20,000 of therapy
  • How to select the best type of therapy for YOU
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STEP EIGHT

  • 5 Ways to keep your children safe and protected from addiction (if you stay or go)
  • What you must teach your children when they are alone with your loved one
  • The benefits of addiction for our children (it’s not all bad)
  • The surprising truth about kids and divorce no one prepares you for
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STEP NINE

  • How to tell friends and family the truth
  • When not to share about addiction
  • What to do when your partner's family isn’t supportive of you
  • How to handle feeling like you are disappointing people
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STEP TEN

  • How to forgive your loved one so you are free to stay or leave
  • When to protect yourself from being vulnerable and trusting
  • How to stop worrying about other people judging your choices to stay or leave
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STEP ELEVEN

  • How and when to trust them again
  • The simple secret to feeling better (if they get healthy or not)
  • How to trust YOURSELF to make the best choices
  • How to feel peaceful and calm (even through chaos)
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STEP TWELVE

  • Healthy vs. unhealthy relationships - how does yours measure up?
  • Recovery stats - what are the chances your loved one will get sober for good?
  • The 3 stages of grieving the loss of your relationship
  • The biggest mistake women make after they leave
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BONUSES

  • The Leaving Checklist (everything you need to know before you decide to leave)
  • The Staying Checklist (everything you need to know if you decide to stay)
  • The Relationship Test: are you ready to leave or should you stay?
  • Access to our secret community full of supportive, understanding women

WHAT OTHER WOMEN
ARE SAYING

Privacy is something we take very, very seriously. We never share names (or make them up) for testimonies. You’re going to have to trust they are from real women.

"This is just what I am needing as I am in the thick of my divorce - thanks for always pushing me to be my best."

"Helpful even for those of us who wish to stay but don’t want to feel dependent."

"It’s an amazing life-changing program!! It’s the whole package. My kids, dogs and I are happily and peacefully living in OUR new house. It’s decorated how I want, I have my own bathroom and we are not walking on eggshells anymore! I'm excited for the next half of my life!"

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Is Love Over Addiction: Stay or Go Right For You?

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Love Over Addiction: Stay or Go Can Help If You've Ever Said:

  • This relationship has so much potential - I’m not ready to give up the dream
  • I’m afraid of their reaction if I announce I am leaving
  • I’m worried I won’t be able to go back to them if I separate
  • I have become controlling, demanding, angry and exhausted and nothing is working
  • I’m thinking of leaving but I just don’t know yet
  • I am ready to leave but I’m not sure what I should do next
  • I want to stay but I need things to get better - quickly

Love Over Addiction: Stay or Go Is Not For:

  • Good people who are addicted to drugs or alcohol
  • Mothers of alcoholics or substance abusers (Love Over Mistakes – one of our other programs is a better fit for you)
  • Women who only want to blame the person they love and just wait for them to get sober rather than doing her own work

Your Privacy. Our Most Important Priority. Seriously.

Real names are not required. Webcams and face to face meetings are not a part of our programs.

Here’s Your Chance

To find yourself, your happiness and strength.

Love Over Addiction: Stay or Go will save you money by preparing you for appointments with a financial advisor and a lawyer. Your recovery is the key to feeling so much better. Don’t wait for your loved one to get sober. Start today.

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Still Not Sure?

Add up all the bar bills, receipts from liquor stores, DUIs, rehabs or withdrawals from the ATM. This disease has cost hundreds and thousands of dollars.

Not preparing can leave you broke, feeling helpless, and anxious about what could happen.

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